It's been a difficult month, I have to say. I haven't made any progress on finding out where my daughter it and believe me, I've tried. I've used every kind of person search I know about but she must have known I would and hid herself accordingly. No phone records, change of address forms, or public documents at all. I wish I could just apologize and be done with this. But unfortunately that's not the way she wants it. Not that I'm giving up; au contraire my friends. My resolve has just been firmed up even more by my lack of success. I know I will find her. The next step is to use a background check on her place of employment and see if anyone there can give me information as to her whereabouts. One can only hope. Before I find her, however, I should drop a few pounds just to show I'm really serious about changing my life around. This might impress her. There's one small catch - I'm addicted to sweets. I'm going to start looking up junk food alternatives that don't suck because if I could just replace chocolate with raisins or something I think I would feel a whole lot better about stuff, even with all the setbacks.
Man, you would think that since I know how to find someone so easily, it would be no problem to people search my daughter, right? Nope. I'm having a really difficult time. I'm even starting to wonder if they are using aliases or something to keep me off the trail. Wouldn't surprise me considering what a scoundrel her husband is. I know they used one of these Companies That Move So You Don't Have To - because they're lazy! Anyway, I've been stressed out lately, so I've been doing some Damage Control.
So my daughter up and left. She and her husband moved. For a while, I thought he might have kidnapped her, but then she sent me an email that said that they'd moved to get away from my meddling. Can you believe that? (Part of me isn't sure I believe it. I wonder whether he's forcing her at gunpoint to write that email.) Now it looks like I'll have to search people to find my daughter. Good things I'm such a good people finder, I'll find her in no time. Here's the best people search on the web, by the way. You know it's funny, since people search caused this rift between my daughter and I, you might think that I would have given up on it. But now that I need to find her, I'm a big people search advocate.
So I told my daughter about some of the skeletons I found in her hubby's family's closet, and she yelled at me to mind my own business. Now, I can understand that reaction. It's hard to hear that people you love and care about are actually deeply troubled, unfortunate people. So I waited a few days before I called her to give her specifics. And she yelled at me again! She said I should mind my own business and shouldn't mess in other people's lives! I explained that all the information I had gotten from people search was publicly available, but that didn't change her mind. She said she didn't care what person lookup I'd done--she just didn't want to hear about it! I know my daughter loves her husband, but I can't believe she's keeping her head in the sand. Maybe she'll change her tune once I send her news articles now that I know all about finding news archives online.
Wow, has it really been that long since I last updated? As you can imagine, the holidays have been a whirlwind for me, what with seeing my new special lady and juggling that time with my newlywed daughter. Unfortunately, not everything has been quite so hunky dory. Now, don't get my wrong, I love my daughter and her new hubby. However, his parents and that whole side of the family are completely psychotic. They invited me over for Christmas, which was sweet and all, since my daughter would be joining them, and I didn't want to spend Christmas alone. But then they set fire to my cat! Seriously! I had to take my cat with me, and their five year old nephew set fire to poor Mr. Boots! Fortunately, due to my uncanny skill to find someone I was able to track down more information about that side of the family. They've got a more than a few bankruptcies, let me tell you what! See, this is why it's so great to know about finding people, it can confirm your worst fears about your in-laws! My son-in-law was talking about how to plan a family reunion, but they can definitely count me out, thank you very much!
